In the run-up to Valentine’s Day, I wanted to do two things. I wanted to take a moment to think about some of the great romances of history … and I wanted – shamelessly, perhaps – to suggest that a copy of The Courtesan’s Lover might make a much more individual Valentine’s day present than a box of chocolates or a bunch of roses. (Of course, you could always combine them … reading the book whilst eating a load of chocolates and smelling the lovely roses – and quaffing champagne, perhaps – might really put someone in the mood for romance … )
So – a quick look at some of the more memorable romances of history …
The Brownings – Robert and Elizabeth.
(Of course I had to include the Brownings – look what Robert’s poetry has done for me! )

This was a lifelong love between two great writers, which was kindled at the start … by poetry. Robert Browning wrote what to all intents and purposes was a fan letter to Elizabeth Barrett in
January 1845. He had read her book of poems and was both in awe and in love. ‘I love your verses with all my heart, dear Miss Barrett,’ he wrote. Browning at the time was a little known but wildly ambitious writer of 32, while the invalid Miss Barrett, seven years his senior, was already an internationally respected poet.
What followed must be one of the most passionate and devoted literary correspondences ever – they wrote each other nearly SIX HUNDRED letters over the following twenty months. This correspondence lasted right up until the night before they left for a trip to Italy, a fortnight after a secret marriage.
The marriage had been shrouded in secrecy because of the appalling Mr Barrett, Elizabeth’s father. For years, the invalid Elizabeth had lived with this tyrannical and domineering man, who had, bizarrely, forbidden any of his children to marry. After the couple’s first meeting, it took time for sickly, isolated Elizabeth fully to trust Robert’s passionate declarations of affection, but over several months (always in her father’s absence, of course) their relationship blossomed, and Elizabeth’s frail health began to improve.
The couple fled England (and Elizabeth’s father) and settled in Italy immediately after their marriage, where they lived happily for fifteen years until Elizabeth died in Robert’s arms in 1861. During their married life together they produced both a son (another Robert, known as Pen) and many successful and beautiful poems. Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s sonnet ‘How do I love thee? Let me count the ways’ – read at probably more weddings than any other poem – is an exquisite declaration of love for her then husband-to-be.
Anthony and Cleopatra

A very different sort of love affair now – one which flourished amidst violent political intrigue and civil war. Cleopatra is famously linked to several men, of course, but her final romantic alliance
was with Roman general Mark Anthony. This was no easy relationship – it resulted in both their deaths, and brought an end to the centuries-old Ptolemeic dynasty to which Cleopatra had belonged, but its very passion and intensity has ensured it its place in history.
Just as had happened with Julius Caesar, years before, once Queen Cleopatra VII of Egypt set her sights on Mark Anthony, the outcome was pretty well inevitable. Well known for her extraordinary powers of seduction – she planned the best way to ensnare Anthony carefully and lavishly. She arrived to meet him for the first time on a vast river barge, dressed as Venus, the Roman Goddess of Love. In the face of such determination, Anthony didn’t stand a chance!
He followed her back to Alexandria, vowing to protect both Egypt and his new-found love. Things seemed not to last, though – Anthony left for Rome some months later, leaving Cleopatra pregnant with his twin sons. Filled with as much political ambition as Cleopatra herself, Anthony had decided to return to Rome to ensure that the powerful Roman triumvirate remained strong and effective – to this end he married the half-sister of another member of the triumvirate, Octavian (later the Emperor Augustus). Anthony’s love for Cleopatra remained undimmed, though, and several years later, he returned to Egypt to be with her. Declaring her son by Julius Caesar to be his heir, and awarding land to each of the twin boys he had fathered on her, Anthony’s political machinations resulted in a furious war of propaganda with Octavian, who declared that Anthony was entirely under Cleopatra’s rule and influence.
Full-blown war was eventually declared by Octavian upon Anthony and Cleopatra – and the pair were soundly defeated. As the battle died down, Cleopatra took refuge in the mausoleum she had had built for herself, and Anthony, wrongly believing her dead, stabbed himself with his sword. Cleopatra was distraught, and, along with two (unfortunate) female servants, shut herself into her chamber and took her own life, probably with the help of a poisonous snake.
At her request, she was buried alongside Anthony.
Botticelli and Simonetta Vespucci

Another request for burial alongside the beloved. This was a totally unrequited love, though, which, if true, is almost unbearably romantic!
Sandro Botticelli, the great Renaissance painter, never married, and in fact often said that the thought of marriage even gave him nightmares! This might have been because there is a possibility that he was homosexual – though this has never been formally documented – but the most likely reason seems to be that he spent much of his live in unrequited devotion to a young married noblewoman, by the name of Simonetta Vespucci. Simonetta was the darling of the Renaissance – she was impossibly young and unbelievably beautiful. She was the model for Botticelli’s ‘The Birth of Venus’ and many other paintings.
Simonetta Vespucci died in 1476 at the tragic age of 22 – most probably from pulmonary tuberculosis. Botticelli was, so it is said, heartbroken. He remained devoted to her for the rest of his life, she inspired many more of his paintings, and he made a special request to be buried at her feet when he died. This wish was carried out some 34 years later, when the painter finally died in 1510 – he was indeed buried at Simonetta’s feet in the Vespucci parish church of Ognissanti.
I do hope I’ve put you in the mood for a romantic read! The Courtesan’s Lover is available to buy from Amazon and Waterstones – and you might still be able to catch it in Sainsburys. You can read the first chapter of the book here.
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Posted in General | Written By Gaby January 26, 2012 | Comments (0)



Love ‘em or hate ‘em, it’s just one of those things that you do, isn’t it, when a new book comes out? Book signings, that is. I’m not sure what I think of them, but I’ve just done my fair share – three consecutive Saturdays, since the publication of ‘The Courtesan’s Lover’, at different Waterstones stores – and I thought I’d share a few random thoughts about the experience.
I’ll tell you all about its journey next time.
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